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Saturday, August 27, 2011

Things that make you go Hmmmmm??

So I have something to share that I think is somewhat of a hot topic.  My mind is made up on where I stand, but I am definitely one who feels everyone is entitled to their own opinion so I would love to hear some comments. 

I might be alone in this............

But first........... woke up early & couldn't go back to sleep.  Ankle still hurts so exercise is out (darn), what to do, what to do?  Well, I haven't been garage sale-ing in a while (or any shopping besides the necessities).  I don't want to go alone.......I'll just wake up those darling daughters I have.  This is our loot: 

For Ethan- Lego Book $1
                  Rock costume $1

Halloween costume - check

Beautiful shabby chic pillowcases: $1 for both


4 Reusable Grocery Bags:  Free w/ purchase - Score! I do love bringing my own bags everywhere I go and these ones are nice & sturdy.

A flower 10 cents, tiny stuffed dog 10 cents & Heelies $1  Lila couldn't be happier and payed for these with her own money.


Shoes (all 3)  $1 per pair & a necklace I am not sure was paid for


A real leather Michael Kors purse $3.  I have been wanting a new purse for a while and was planning on getting one for my birthday next week.  Obviously that's not happening.  I wanted a more structured & bigger one, but I am thrilled to have one that is nice as opposed to strings fraying off the handles.


Some books for Ethan and a fairy book for my niece.  25 cents each
   

And to continue the Thrifty theme I went to a 72 hour sale at Henry's and got 4 watermelons for $5, 3 cantaloupe for $1, 3 bell peppers for $1, an eggplant for 88 cents & pears at 3lbs for $1!!!!!  All our shopping cardio wore us out & upon returning home 2 of those melons disappeared before I took this picture.


Now here comes the controversy.  I searched for some really nice books & came up with these 2.  They are for a birthday party Ethan is going to today.  I have seen 2 minutes of this show & would go mad if it was ever in my home but it seems popular and I feel this boy would really like them.  Books are usually the gift I give because I love them so much.  Price for both, 50 cents.


So what do you think?  Totally tacky, or thoughtful & thrifty? 


 I made sure the books looked brand new and added in a bag of candy.  I can't afford to spend the usual $10 on gifts, especially when I feel this is a nice gift.  Personally I don't care how much something costs, If I love something I love it.  I would even love it better if the giver got a good deal on it.  

I have given my own kids Christmas & Birthday gifts that I have gotten from garage sales or thrift stores.


I really do find joy in being thrifty.  I don't care how much money I have (or don't have presently) but a bargain is always appreciated by me.


I know there are some who would be horrified to do this, and that's perfectly ok.  I get it.  I am just not one of them.  I've talked before how I take spoons out of the garbage, and how I've eaten my customers leftovers (before kids in my working days).  I actually admire Freegans & think it's great they use what others throw away. 



 This is Emry, Lila,  my little (big) brother Adam & me.  Adam could put everything he own in his car.  I actually have a few brothers that could do this.  Seeing how they view the world and consumerism is so refreshing to me.

I feel I lie somewhere in the middle.  Doing my best to teach my kids to use it up, recycle, don't waste, reuse, find a deal, stretch your dollar & most of the time - go without.

But I sure will love my new (to me) Michael Kors leather purse.

6 comments:

  1. You go, girl! I see nothing wrong with a thrifty gift. You know us Sowards... "Bargain" is Brandon's middle name (but should probably be his first!) I won't even get into what he hauled home and we sold for cash money just this past week...!
    My boys each had a party to go to today. What did they take? Uno Spin games that were on clearance @ Target for just $2 each. I bought the 5 of them a few months ago and they've been sitting in my closet waiting to be wrapped and given away.
    It's an old saying but it truly is the THOUGHT that counts. Besides... don't we all take the price tags off the gifts we give, anyway?

    You get my vote of thoughtful and thrifty. :)

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  2. The bag is Great! I love thrift stores. When I was in Florida (lucky for me 2 times over the summer) going to thrift stores was our major focus. My friends know tons of them and I got so many cool thing for myself and for Ralph. Total I might have spent $40 and I got so many different things. There's no reason you couldn't give a gift from a thrift store or yard sale if it's in good condition. Look back as tome of my old posts from the beginning of August and you'll see some of my goodies! Keep at it, you're doing Great!

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  3. Good for you.
    you know with kids...do they really care?
    You know who cares I think? us adults and our egos.

    my son is happiest with a simple party favor toy. And in a week is is done with it.

    I have a hard time re-gifting and giving things that are not "brand new"
    I say good for you.

    these are not easy times so good for you for being resourceful

    I actually love going to good will and finding cute shirts CHEAP.
    YAY

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  4. I think you are awesome for being such a good shopper. I am not very good at looking for bargains...

    I think the gift is fabulous although I personally don't like SpongeBob. But the kids LOVE him. In any case books are the best gift in my opinion.

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  5. Nice finds Marie!! I need to put you in charge of my shopping, I could save a lot of money! :) If the books look like new I think you are fine...and I was going to say pair it with some treats but we were on the same wavelength so you are set!

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  6. My sister and I have a rule that all birthday gifts for eachothers kids (christmas too) have to be used..... I literally go in my kids' rooms and pick out a couple things and give it to her kids. they all love it!

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